ANALYSIS OF THE IMPACT OF EARLY MARRIAGE ON CHILDREN'S PARENTING PATTERNS

Early marriage will definitely have an impact on child rearing. Therefore, the purpose of this study was to analyze the impact of early marriage on child parenting. The research method used in this study is a qualitative descriptive method. The type of data used in this study is qualitative data, which is divided into primary data and secondary data. Sources of data obtained through library research techniques refer to sources available online and offline, such as scientific journals, books, and news from trusted sources. The results of the study concluded that married couples who married young, did not have a mature and mature thought and were not able to take care of their children properly. They often ignore, scold, yell, even treat them harshly such as pinching and even beating their children when they behave that they do not like or otherwise they spoil their children too much.


INTRODUCTION
Marriage at an early age or early marriage is a phenomenon that is rife in Indonesia until now.Head of the Population and Family Planning Agency (BKKBN) Faisal Jalal said the number of early marriages in Indonesia was still very high (Melnikas et al., 2020).This phenomenon has many negative impacts on the perpetrators of early marriage, both psychologically, economically, socially and physically (Walker, 2012).From a psychological, economic, and social point of view, marriage actors are vulnerable to various kinds of psychological pressure in the changes in their roles.While other teenagers are still getting formal education and planning their dreams, early marriage actors have to be faced with the challenge of living a new life, namely being a family and young parents for their children.This young family must be able to create a harmonious family and a stable economy to live a better life and to provide for the lives of their children in the future Amrullah Ibnus Salam 2 JTUS, Volume 1 No. 2 March 2023 (Febriani et al., 2020).Marriage at a young age also has a bad influence on their children.Usually children are less intelligent.As stated by a psychologist.
Prof. Jamalaluddin Ancok, namely Children born to teenage mothers have a lower level of intelligence than children born to mothers who are more mature (Andayani et al., 2018).The low number of children's intelligence is because the mother has not given mental stimulation to their children (Salam, 2023).This is because mothers who are still teenagers do not have the readiness to become mothers.The role of parents is very significant for the psychological development of their children.Parenting patterns of parents in children will affect the personality of their children in adulthood (Hansen & Hasan, 2015).Children who are still in the process of development have basic needs, especially the need for security, affection and the need for self-esteem.If these needs are not met, it will cause a shock to the child's development (Nurwati et al., 2020).There are still many parents who do not realize the importance of their direct involvement in parenting.Not infrequently the consequences are detrimental to the physical and mental development of their own children.
Children must have character so that they are able to face the next life (Cahyono & Dewi, 2019).These characters include religious, honest, tolerance, discipline, hard work, creative, independent, democratic, curiosity, achievement, friendly, communicative, peace-loving, fond of reading, environmental care, social care, responsibility (Mardiyaningsih et al., 2021).Not infrequently also found in the community, parents who do early marriages are seen as not ready to raise children, thus giving full parenting power to their grandmothers.In fact, it is not necessarily the care that today's children need can match the parenting style of the current generation (Pratiwi, 2020;Susilo et al., 2021) It was also found that parents easily gave gadgets freedom to their children.Which then results in the child being addicted and cognitive decline.
So that the process of parenting in the family must be supported by the attention and encouragement of both parents.So that the attention and encouragement of parents will help children grow well because the child's psychology is in a comfortable and conducive condition so that children can easily absorb all the values taught in the family (Mukhoirotin & Sari, 2016).
When someone who is psychologically and emotionally not said to be in an ideal condition to get married, but still gets married coupled with having children, it will affect the upbringing of their children.From the formulation of the problem above, the purpose of writing this paper is to determine the impact of early marriage on child parenting.

METHODS
This research is an empirical research Empirical legal research is often understood as another type of research, which is often confronted with normative legal research.For this reason, this research basically examines primary data using a qualitative approach.The approach used is a conceptual approach (conceptual approach) (Biron et al., 2005) Analysis of legal materials begins with the stage of inventorying legal materials, then synchronizing legal materials, then qualitatively analyzing them to reach a clear point of the issues raised (de Kok et al., 2005).The author then describes and relates in such a way that it is presented in a more systematic writing and the results will be described descriptively, namely by explaining and describing according to the problems associated with writing this article.

RESULTS AND DISCUSSION
The Impact of Early Marriage Impact is a strong influence that brings consequences, both positive and positive, both positive and negative.From the perspective of psychology, marriage at a young age is a motivator to increase one's potential in all positive aspects (Muhith et al., 2018).With the love that can be obtained from marriage, it creates a sense of security, comfort which will have a mental impact on someone who is getting married.Individuals who live in a social environment that is colored with an atmosphere of love, will become someone who can love and respect others.The impact of marriage at a young age will create rights and obligations between both parties, both in relation to themselves, to children, and to their respective families.The effects of early marriage include: a. Impact on husband and wife It is undeniable that married couples who have married at a young age cannot fulfill or cannot fulfill or do not know their rights and obligations as husband and wife.This arises because their physical and mental immaturity tends to both have high selfishness.
b. Impact on their children People who have married at a young age or underage will have an impact.In addition to having an impact on couples who marry at a young age, marriage at a young age also has an impact on their children.Because for women who get married under the age of 20 years, if they are pregnant, they will experience disturbances in their womb and many of them also give birth to children.
c. Impact on each family In addition to the impact on the husband-wife his wife and children marrying at a young age will also have an impact on their respective families.If the marriage between their children is smooth, of course it will benefit their respective parents.But if on the other hand their household conditions are not happy and in the end what happens is divorce.This will result in an increase in their cost of living and the worst thing will break the ties of kinship between the two parties.According to Cabib Thoha in Mangoenprasodjo, parenting is the best way that parents can take in educating children as an embodiment and sense of responsibility to children.
Solaieman stated that parenting is the attitude of parents in dealing with their children, this attitude can be seen from various aspects, including the way parents give rules to children, how to give gifts, and punishments and parents' ways.According to Soekirman Mangoenprasodjo Parenting is the ability of families and communities to provide time, attention and support for children so that they can grow and develop as well as possible physically, mentally and socially.
Children will experience growth naturally in their lives, although children are still very dependent on the presence of adults.Parenting patterns will greatly affect the process of growth and development of living children in a family that is full of love and which is always under pressure will be in its development.Broadly speaking, parenting applied by parents to their children can be classified into What is meant is that every parent in educating their child requires that every child be obedient and submit to every parent's will.Children are not given the opportunity to ask everything that concerns the duties, obligations and rights given to them.What is meant is the attitude of parents who want to listen to their children's opinions, then deliberation is carried out between the opinions of parents and children's opinions and then a conclusion is drawn together, without anyone feeling forced.
What is meant by the attitude of parents in educating children is to give absolute freedom to children in acting without any direction so that children whose behavior is deviant will become children who are not accepted in society because they cannot adapt to the environment.It can be concluded that permissive parenting is parenting that gives freedom to children so that children do not have good direction in their environment.Impact of Early Marriage on Child Parenting Early marriage will definitely have an impact on child upbringing.
According to Heri Cahyono & Dewi, (2019), the impact is that married couples who marry young, do not have mature and mature thoughts and cannot take care of their children properly.They often neglect, scold, yell and even treat them harshly such as pinching and even hitting their children when they behave that they don't like or on the contrary they spoil their children too much.Researchers can conclude that the impact of early marriage on child parenting is an authoritarian parenting pattern that pressures children to obey what parents want and causes psychological disturbances to the child.

CONCLUSION
Early marriage will definitely have an impact on child upbringing.Researchers can conclude that the impact of early marriage on child parenting is an authoritarian parenting pattern that pressures children to obey what parents want and causes psychological disturbances to the child.
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